The Usual Error Why We Don't Understand Each Other and 34

The Usual Error Why We Don't Understand Each Other and 34 Ways to Make It Better [PDF / EPUB] The Usual Error Why We Don't Understand Each Other and 34 Ways to Make It Better This is a down to earth communication guidebook filled with methods we've learned and tested and punctuated with actual stories from our lives You'll learn why miscommunication happens so often how to This is Error Why PDF/EPUB ¼ a down to earth communication guidebook filled with methods we've learned and tested and punctuated with actual stories from our lives You'll learn why miscommunication happens so often how to avoid needless conflict how to resolve arguments peacefully what societal myths block clear understanding and how to be happier by changing the way you speak So throw away that mind reading helmet you bought on eBay It doesn't work anyway We'll show you better ways to be understood and to understand other people and we'll entertain you in the The Usual PDF/EPUB ² process.


5 thoughts on “The Usual Error Why We Don't Understand Each Other and 34 Ways to Make It Better

  1. says:

    Great communications book It covers a ton of ground very uickly touching lightly on 34 tools to communicate and live better This is the first communications book I've read which includes basic hints like remember to eat but also has advanced tools like NVC The layout is perfect so it's easy to remember tools through a uick check of the TOC Writing style is simple enough for a sixth grader but still enjoyable and even a little relaxing I plan to hand this over to my kid when I'm done The breadth makes it great for experienced communicators Depth and language makes it great for people just learningDownsides Some chapter titles are cute puns which are fun but you can't always remember what the chapter was about without rereading There is some reference to sex ie that it happens and adult relationships which may exclude young readersNeither good or bad Each chapter is about five pages; short enough to touch on a topic and how to use it That's a great intro and a great way to be comprehensive But some topics need a lot pages to cover properly For me it initiated some dialogues with my wife to unpack things I don't know if I'd change this but it's something to be aware of


  2. says:

    This book has been hugely helpful in understanding arguments that I have had relationships that failed and why they did so and has prevented me from replicating those mistakes I have recommended it to all of my friends


  3. says:

    As I was moving in my other half this month I thought this would be a good opportunity to grab myself a non fiction book on communication I enjoy psychology and believe that communication is important in general life as well as helpful for a writerAlthough not every chapter meant something to me I enjoyed the book Nothing felt like a waste to read and the comments that did speak to me were really helpfulAlthough it's not a book my partner would read with me I did pick out key aspects 5 or 6 of the 34 chapters to create an open discussion and get his views on the techniues I thought I might try I was also reminded of techniues I know inherently help me to feel understood and valued yet forget to actually practiseEvery part of this book was useful to read especially thinking about how other people communicate especially if a section didn't really speak to me I could usually think of someone I knew who I could now improve communications withFive stars all the way


  4. says:

    This is a good book about how to communicate The usual error is assuming other people know what you know and experience things as you experience them That leads to all kinds of miscommunications and disappointments The book covers how to do better at this from a lot of different angles It also provides at least one case study for each pointI liked the book but by the end it made me kind of tired Most of the case studies are different incidents in the authors' relationship and apparently one of them is very emotional I can't imagine being so easily hurt and taking absolutely everything personally like she does or did before they started implementing the strategies in this book It must make everyday life extremely traumatic and it must be exhausting to live with Holy cow Anyway great guide to better communication I recommend it


  5. says:

    In clear easy to understand language Pace and Kyeli break down why we have trouble communicating and give simple ways to do it better There are lots of examples and the conversational tone made this a fast read I read one short chapter per night and then let the ideas percolate A terrific book for anyone who wants to understand and be understood as well as those who want better relationships Highly recommended PS This can be downloaded for free from their website


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